Teddy Bear~ *huggy* {edit by mei mei} 

Take A Quiz to Spot the Fake Smile.
Can You Spot A Fake smile???
Spot the fake smile
URL: http://www.bbc.co.uk/science/humanbody/mind/surveys/smiles/index.shtml


Results
You got 11 out of 20 correct

Look at the labels below each image to see which smiles are genuine and which are fake.

Most people are surprisingly bad at spotting fake smiles. One possible explanation for this is that it may be easier for people to get along if they don't always know what others are really feeling.

Although fake smiles often look very similar to genuine smiles, they are actually slightly different, because they are brought about by different muscles, which are controlled by different parts of the brain.

Fake smiles can be performed at will, because the brain signals that create them come from the conscious part of the brain and prompt the zygomaticus major muscles in the cheeks to contract. These are the muscles that pull the corners of the mouth outwards.

Genuine smiles, on the other hand, are generated by the unconscious brain, so are automatic. When people feel pleasure, signals pass through the part of the brain that processes emotion. As well as making the mouth muscles move, the muscles that raise the cheeks – the orbicularis oculi and the pars orbitalis – also contract, making the eyes crease up, and the eyebrows dip slightly.

Lines around the eyes do sometimes appear in intense fake smiles, and the cheeks may bunch up, making it look as if the eyes are contracting and the smile is genuine. But there are a few key signs that distinguish these smiles from real ones. For example, when a smile is genuine, the eye cover fold - the fleshy part of the eye between the eyebrow and the eyelid - moves downwards and the end of the eyebrows dip slightly.

Scientists distinguish between genuine and fake smiles by using a coding system called the Facial Action Coding System (FACS), which was devised by Professor Paul Ekman of the University of California and Dr Wallace V. Friesen of the University of Kentucky.

GUYS!! u shld read!! i will do good for ur
relationship!! c0s it's oh so true!!
Message: Sounds familiar?

11.05pm, guy and gal were chatting happily, when
guy uncontrollably yawns


bad example

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gal (sounding out): you feeling sleeping??

guy: yeah, tired from work...

gal (sounds concern): ok, shan't disturb u, go and
sleep lah

guy: ok, you have an early nite too..

guy hangs up the phone.

5 min later, phone rings

awaken by the phone rings, guy: hello?

gal: .............

guy: who's this?

gal (feeling unjust): you felt very bothered by me is
it?

guy (confused): huh? what?

gal: .............

guy: why? what happened?

gal: you find me very bothersome is it?

guy: bothersome? why you said this??

gal: ..............

guy: what's the matter? how i would know if you
dun say it out?

gal: we are chatting halfway, and you yawn, and
went off to sleep...

guy: b...but, you are the one who ask me to go to
sleep...

gal: you already said want to sleep already, what
else u want me to say?

guy: haiz... if you wanna chat, just say so... what
for tell me to go sleep, and feeling unhappy in the
end?

gal: since when i'm unhappy?

guy: isn't this unhappy? ok ok, i won't sleep the
next time, will that do?

gal: what's the point? i want you to chat with me
willingly, and not because afraid that i will be
unhappy...

In the end, guy spend another HR comforting
gal, actual sleep time is 11.40pm, plus the earlier
argument, he did not have a good sleep.

what worse is the gal may argue with the same
thing again the next day.



good example

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gal (sounding out): you feeling sleepy?

guy (tired vocal, but sound interested) : abit, tired
from work. but you have not finished talking, carry
on, i will be listening.

gal: (felt consoled): orh, but since you are tired, go
and sleep then

(still sounding out) never fall into the trap and hang
up the phone

guy: there's no afternoon break today, indeed more
tiring. how abt i give u a call tomorrow morning.
let's chat awhile more ok? (tells the reason, and
offer make up measure)

gal: oh ok. go and sleep now, you must be tired.

gal is willing to let guy go sleep, but guy must do a
bit more than this

guy: so what time you are going to sleep?

gal: not sure, probably a bit later.

guy: ok, but not too late, not good for health. i will
be heart pain one hor...

gal (feeling loved): ok lah...

guy: i love you the most! (even if eyes are shutting
also must remember to say this impt words, else
all effort wasted)

gal: i loved you too, have a good rest! (happy till
can float liao)

guy: ehmm...

gal hang up the phone

in the end, 11.10pm. guy sleep peacefully, and
probably a morning call from gal the next day...


conclusion 1:

female wants feeling and care. most of the time,
female's logic cannot

be figure out with a reasoning mind.


conclusion 2:

say a few more touching words, concerning lines,
will save you more

than hr of precious time


conclusion 3:

when encounter the above situation, must always
let the gal hang up

the phone first. else it will be disastrous...



conclusion 4:

if your gf isn't like the one in the example, then
congrats to u!

treasure her! but if otherwise, dun accuse her of
being unreasonable.

what she wants is very simple..

THIS IS THE SEXY TEST...
HOW SEXY R U?

GET A PIECE OF PAPER AND NUMBER
IT 1-11 (NO CHEATING)

SEE YOUR RESULTS AT THE END OF
THE TEST.

WHEN YOU SEND IT ON PUT YOUR
SCORE IN THE SUBJECT BAR.



QUESTIONS!!!!!!

1. WHAT SHADE OF HAIR DO YOU
HAVE?

a) Dark
b) Light

2. OUT ON A DATE WOULD YOU WANT
TO:


a) Go to a party?
b) Go out to eat?

3. WHAT IS YOUR FAVORITE COLOR
OUT OF:

a) Baby-Pink
b) Yellow
c) Baby-Blue
d) Turquoise

4. PICK YOUR FAVOURITE HOBBY OUT
OF:

a) Surfing
b) Skate-Boarding
c) Skiing

5. IF YOU COULD PICK A STORE OUT
OF THE
FOLLOWING, WHICH WOULD IT
BE?

a) Louie Vuitton
b) coach
c) againt all odds

6. WHAT IS YOUR FAVOURITE PLACE
OUT OF
THE FOLLOWING?

a) hawaii
b) London
c) florida

7. IN THE SUMMER WOULD YOU
RATHER GO
TO:

a) The Beach?
b) Somewhere Cooler?

8. WHAT IS YOUR BIRTHDAY MONTH?

a) January
b) February
c) March
d) April
e) May
f) June
g) July
h) August
i) September
j) October
k) November
l) December

9. WOULD YOU RATHER:

a) Chill at home
b) Go out with friends

10. WHAT IS YOUR FAVOURITE
INSTRUMENT
OUT OF:

a) Guitar
b) Bass guitar
c) Drums
d) The Triangle

11) NAME A PERSON OF THE
OPPOSITE SEX



====NOW MAKE A WISH!====



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ANSWERS!!!!!!

1.
a- dark= sexy [5points]
b- light = sweet [2 points]

2.
a- go to a party = playful [2 points]
b. go out to eat = romantic [5 points]

3.
a- baby-pink = cute [2]
b- yellow = loud [3]
c-baby-blue = cool [5]
d. turquoise = sexy [5]

4.
a- surfing = active [2]
b- skateboarding = determined [2]
c- skiing = daring [5]

5.
a) Louie Vuitton=tasteful[7]
b) coach=laid back[2]
c) againt all odds=sytlish[5]

6.
a) hawaii =you like being around people
[2]
b) London= You are quiet, and like the
cold [2]
c) florida= > > >You like to party! [5]

7.
a- beach = tan, likes the sun [5]
b- somewhere cooler = pale and original
[2]

8.
a) January = popular [5]
b) February = lovely [2]
c) March = loud [2]
d) April = playful [5]
e) May =happy [5]
f) june = chills a lot[5]
g) July = smooth [2]
h)August = fun [5]
i) September = quiet [2]
j)October =out-going [2]
k) November = pimpin' it [5]
l)December = warm [2]

9.
a- home = quiet, romantic [5]
b- go out with friends =crazy [5]

10.
a- guitar = eye-catching [5]
b- bass-guitar = mellow [2]
c- Drums = loud [2]
d- Triangle = crazy [5]

11. This person will fall in love with you!



SCORES!!!!

below 20 = :X sex appeal is zilch.

21 - 35 = You've got the potential...

36 - 40 = You're sexy, baby!

41 and above= God, you're too sexy for
this test!!!!

Be sure to read all the way to the bottom!

One day a farmer's donkey fell down into a well. The
animal cried piteously for hours as the farmer tried
to figure out what to do. Finally, he decided the
animal was old, and the well needed to be covered up
anyway; it just wasn't worth it to retrieve the
donkey.

He invited all his neighbors to come over and help
him. They all grabbed a shovel and began to shovel
dirt into the well. At first, the donkey realized what
was happening and cried horribly. Then, to everyone's
amazement he quieted down.

A few shovel loads later, the farmer finally looked
down the well. He was astonished at what he saw. With
each shovel of dirt that hit his back, the donkey was
doing something amazing. He would shake it off and
take a step up.

As the farmer's neighbors continued to shovel dirt on
top of the animal, he would shake it off and take a
step up. Pretty soon, everyone was amazed as the
donkey stepped up over the edge of the well and
happily trotted off!

Life is going to shovel dirt on you, all kinds of
dirt. The trick to getting out of the well is to shake
it off and take a step up. Each of our troubles is a
steppingstone. We can get out of the deepest wells
just by not stopping, never giving up! Shake it off
and take a step up.

Remember the simple rules to be happy:

1. Free your heart from hatred - Forgive.
2. Free your mind from worries - Most never happen.
3. Live simply and appreciate what you have.
4. Give more.

The donkey later came back and bit the the farmer who
had tried to bury him. The gash from the bite got
infected, and the farmer eventually died in agony from
septic shock.

MORAL FROM TODAY'S LESSON:
When you do something wrong and try to cover yourself
it always comes back to bite you.

sometimes .. you dont wana say certain things. But you did. Sometimes u didnt mean to do certain things, but u did. Likewise , When u have been thinking of someone and something ... u could have gone straight to do it. but certain things pull you back. Until now i still cant handle a relation .. though i wanted to do it right ..
In my mind .. the Yes and No question keep popping .. but i have an exam tml .. HOW ??
WHaT DO i do ??
I am really at a loss.. Half says yes half says no..
Isit tat i really cant accept the photo ? or was it i didnt accept the person?
I think i do accept the person, if nt i wont be with her in the 1st place .. really touched by how she treated me .. i wanted to do more for her .. but now ? I Dont know anymore... Have I changed ? or did she ?
Both are waiting .. and getting angry for the same reason. It can be resolved.
Should i try harder, or let it go ??

The sms just appeared : " such a simple qns u take so long to answer?"
I just cant reply tat sms .. its a painful decision ..
Maybe i am just being a bastard you may say .. Yes i am .. in every way .. insult me for all you want.

If we fly our own ways ... the lines would never once again intercept. It would be over..

Tml is exam and i spent my night outside at prata shop with some sec sch friends .. But all the time i think of coming back .. Siao le .. tats why at this time i haven sleep ..
While i make this decision.. I shall end here ..

http://www.big-boys.com/articles/numanuma.html

Look at this ... its really funny ... perhaps u can imitate this ...

guess its time to start blogging again...

Today its a sunday ... initially .. think i should stay home de .. but the night b4 agreed jasmine to accompany her go bugis as her necklace broke .. then was talking to dear ... she been bz lately also .. seems quite stressful ..
Well .. woke up kind of late today .. wake up then saw timing ... watch One Piece on Tv le .. haha . not bad also ... then woke up to have lunch then go out le ... haven go out then karen already sms say she on the way .. OMG .. so fast ....
Even jasmine is earlier ... i really late today ...
Quite lucky tat mrt all came quite fast, didnt have to wait tat long for every train .. changed 2 times ma .. cos going to bugis.
Met Karen 1st .. she seems a little unhappy le ... Maybe my fault ba ... Then went to meet Jasmine le ... after tat she say want me acc her .. then she go alone .. of cos i went up and said i wana company her .. She insisted tat she wants to walk alone .. which i think i shld give her time alone .. so tat she can do wat she want .. and if i around .. only make her more angry ..so i walk around with jasmine ..
Good thing she called back later and we both went to eat with her .. so silly of her didnt go eat .. Kind of make her angry abit today ...
Lucky it all went well .. but too bad cant acc jasmine to go orchard .. as i decided to send dear home .. if not we gt nt much time together recently ma ..
Coming home .. was thinking .. go buy Hair Spray .. cos i dont wana use hair gel or wax le .. spray better .