GUYS!! u shld read!! i will do good for ur
relationship!! c0s it's oh so true!!
Message: Sounds familiar?

11.05pm, guy and gal were chatting happily, when
guy uncontrollably yawns


bad example

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gal (sounding out): you feeling sleeping??

guy: yeah, tired from work...

gal (sounds concern): ok, shan't disturb u, go and
sleep lah

guy: ok, you have an early nite too..

guy hangs up the phone.

5 min later, phone rings

awaken by the phone rings, guy: hello?

gal: .............

guy: who's this?

gal (feeling unjust): you felt very bothered by me is
it?

guy (confused): huh? what?

gal: .............

guy: why? what happened?

gal: you find me very bothersome is it?

guy: bothersome? why you said this??

gal: ..............

guy: what's the matter? how i would know if you
dun say it out?

gal: we are chatting halfway, and you yawn, and
went off to sleep...

guy: b...but, you are the one who ask me to go to
sleep...

gal: you already said want to sleep already, what
else u want me to say?

guy: haiz... if you wanna chat, just say so... what
for tell me to go sleep, and feeling unhappy in the
end?

gal: since when i'm unhappy?

guy: isn't this unhappy? ok ok, i won't sleep the
next time, will that do?

gal: what's the point? i want you to chat with me
willingly, and not because afraid that i will be
unhappy...

In the end, guy spend another HR comforting
gal, actual sleep time is 11.40pm, plus the earlier
argument, he did not have a good sleep.

what worse is the gal may argue with the same
thing again the next day.



good example

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gal (sounding out): you feeling sleepy?

guy (tired vocal, but sound interested) : abit, tired
from work. but you have not finished talking, carry
on, i will be listening.

gal: (felt consoled): orh, but since you are tired, go
and sleep then

(still sounding out) never fall into the trap and hang
up the phone

guy: there's no afternoon break today, indeed more
tiring. how abt i give u a call tomorrow morning.
let's chat awhile more ok? (tells the reason, and
offer make up measure)

gal: oh ok. go and sleep now, you must be tired.

gal is willing to let guy go sleep, but guy must do a
bit more than this

guy: so what time you are going to sleep?

gal: not sure, probably a bit later.

guy: ok, but not too late, not good for health. i will
be heart pain one hor...

gal (feeling loved): ok lah...

guy: i love you the most! (even if eyes are shutting
also must remember to say this impt words, else
all effort wasted)

gal: i loved you too, have a good rest! (happy till
can float liao)

guy: ehmm...

gal hang up the phone

in the end, 11.10pm. guy sleep peacefully, and
probably a morning call from gal the next day...


conclusion 1:

female wants feeling and care. most of the time,
female's logic cannot

be figure out with a reasoning mind.


conclusion 2:

say a few more touching words, concerning lines,
will save you more

than hr of precious time


conclusion 3:

when encounter the above situation, must always
let the gal hang up

the phone first. else it will be disastrous...



conclusion 4:

if your gf isn't like the one in the example, then
congrats to u!

treasure her! but if otherwise, dun accuse her of
being unreasonable.

what she wants is very simple..